Wednesday, August 03, 2011

20 pounds

Kenny and I have set some weight loss goals, with prizes and everything. My goal? To lose 20 pounds. If you need a visual representation of how much fat that is, here you go:

Camille happens to weigh exactly the amount that I want to lose (seems fitting, considering it's her fault that I'm carrying this extra weight).

Every once in a while you can see her deep inner shame that she let herself go:

For my own weight loss goals, I'm hoping to lose the roll around my midriff:

And do some general toning:


So we've been doing a lot of wii-fit lately.

Some yoga:

And trying to eat right:

(on a side note, this was our most recent attempt at solids- she LOVED it but as with every other attempt, she had hours of digestive discomfort (aka screaming) afterwords:()

So far, I lost two pounds, then gained 4 back. Camille has done nothing but gain and doesn't seem worried, so I feel ahead of the game ;)

Sunday, July 24, 2011

July

I spend about 9-10+ hours a day at a computer now, so you'll understand why the blog has fallen by the way side. Once I'm done with work for the day, I'm ready to not touch a computer again til the next morning.
Still, lots of fun happening around here.

Camille is crawling! Well, scoot-armycrawling. She's definitely mobile.

Watch out world! She's also broken out her first tooth. She and Patches continue to be the best of friends (sometimes Patches babysits while I work):


I FINALLY met a real wild Texas Armadillo. I've looked in every bush we've driven past for the last 3.5 years, and finally found one! Actually, Kenny saw it while driving away from our development, he called me at home, and I ran down the street in my PJs with a camera and start looking through the bushes till I found her. Her name is Francine.



She was pretty fearless- I had to scare her off the very busy road. I got within a few feet of her and probably could have touched it her I wanted to. It made my week.

Kenny planned the best birthday surprise EVER! First, knowing I needed a new swimsuit and how hard it is for me to find one that fits, he ordered one for me a few weeks in advance- and it actually fit and I feel amazing in it! He had arranged for my wonderful brother Kevin and his wife Candace to watch the two kids so Kenny and I could go to Schlitterbahn Waterpark in Galveston for a whole day by ourselves.
It was the first time since Daniel was born that we have spent more than 4 hours with each other, kid-free. We had a BLAST! Great waterpark- the slides were not notable but that "lazy river" (which we actually called "the ambitious river") is a LOT of fun. We were worried about weather, and sure enough the whole drive down was an awful storm, but literally the moment we pulled into the parking lot, the rain stopped, and it ended up being sunny enough we got pretty burnt despite sunblocking every hour.
I don't have a picture from our day, sadly, so instead here's Camille in HER new swimsuit:


I think I've finally gotten proficient at cutting Daniel's hair. He still wiggles a lot so that's tough, plus he has crazy cowlicky hair, but I'm no longer ashamed of his home-done haircuts (And think of the money we'll save!):


Unfortunately, we've been passing around an awful cough. Camille sums it up pretty well here- goopy eyes, goopy nose, crusty face... all-around miserable:

Her little cries are hoarse and SO pathetic sounding now! She and I have been dealing with it for 3 weeks or so, Daniel caught it about a week ago, and Kenny finally succumbed today. No fun.

Lots of other pics up at our June and July albums.

The New Job

This is kind of old news, but for those who haven't heard, I got one of the jobs I had been shooting for- so much happiness here. I started full-time at a great consulting agency mid-June as an Implementation Consultant (the same work I did at Omniture before Daniel got too big, and what I've been doing as a contractor for the last 18 months or so.) And yes, this is the agency that has the #nerdshirtfriday competitions :).
I had been looking at 4 or 5 different positions but had pegged Keystone as a favorite early on. I've been watching them hire one industry leader after another since January and happen to have become friends with a lot of them over twitter. One thing I love about my industry is that it is FULL of smart people. This job will also provide the best income we've had yet in our marriage, so... woohoo!
I wrote a blog post- mostly geared at my non-analytics friends, actually- describing what my industry (Web Analytics/Tracking) is about and how it really benefits the average internet user. If you have a free minute I recommend giving it a read- especially since it touches on current legislation that will affect all of the internet.

Working from home with the whole family here has been great. Kenny no longer has to be out the door before 6 am- which has changed our family dynamic a lot. We wake up together, eat breakfast together, then I go to my home office (formerly known as "grandma's room") while Kenny watches the kids. We get to eat lunch together then by the time I'mn done with work at 5 or 6 we're all pretty eager to get out of the house. Kenny's been amazing about watching the kids, though I am a little gratified to see that even he needs a nap sometimes when the kids go down (or sometimes when they haven't ;)).
My first week of work was, well, exhausting. I went to meet a couple of my coworkers in Austin for a couple days (and enjoyed a baby-free night in a hotel), then on the 15th dove into the work from my home office. The first project was a lot to handle, but it was using Google Analytics, which I've been itching to get more experience with, so I'm happy. We've fallen into a good routine now and I'm feeling good about how everything fits together now. I'm working with some pretty big names and will take a day-trip to Florida next month to meet with some of them in person.

I still hope someday to get to be "just" a stay at home mommy, and we definitely hope someday Kenny will go back to teaching. But for the foreseeable future, we feel this is the best path for our family.
So, now that we have a bit of stability in our life, our plan is to save every extra penny possible and start preparing our house so we can move back to the Pacific Northwest. I don't expect the moving plans to start rolling until next spring, but it's nice to know we have a goal to work towards.

Tuesday, June 07, 2011

Children Grow

I suppose it has been a month since my last post. It seems I would need to post twice a day if I wanted to keep up on all the cute happenings here, while nothing of real note has happened this last month. Kenny's last day of school was last Friday and we're now in a brief vacation mode (I'll post job news very soon, I promise).
Daniel has adjusted to being 3 and I don't want to strangle him daily any more (we had a few rough weeks there but now we're back to the only big issue being his overall crazy hyperness and inability to focus/sit still). He's absolutely obsessed with iron man, is getting really into books, and loves to play with Camille.
Camille is in "wonder-baby" mode- if I could freeze her in this age I would. She's smiley and interactive and beginning to be playful but can't destroy the house yet. She is now 6 months old and grows chubbier by the day (she's in the 80th percentile for weight and the 10th percentile for height). She is also sitting up well on her own now:

Our new activity of choice is going to the Waterway Splashpad in the Woodlands. Daniel runs amok in the fountains:
While daddy and Camille chill:
Afterwards we go to Grimaldi's for pizza. Good times.

Daniel and I had fun in a rainstorm (we've been in a severe drought so every rainstorm is a huge deal).
Pretending to be a puppy:
Being his crazy self:

I took a gazillion pics of my sweet chubby baby:



(the rest are on my smugmug).

We spent a day at a friend's house and Camille napped (twice) on the patio furniture (look at those thighs!):

Daniel loves to draw (sun-daddy and sun-camille, he was working on drawing a sun-mommy):


All in all, lots of fun times. The rest of the month's pics are up for May

Saturday, May 07, 2011

Teacher Appreciation

Today marks the end of national "Teacher Appreciation Week". I'm afraid my husband, who teaches 9th grade algebra, is not feeling very appreciated.

When Kenny graduated in Mathematics Education in 2006, he could have gotten a job in pretty much any city in the nation, usually with an extra stipend, because the need for High School Math/Science teachers was so high. A degree in Mathematics Education leaves few job options aside from teaching, and we knew he would never be "rich" as a teacher, but everywhere we had lived, teachers always had good benefits and there would always be a need for math teachers, right? Plus, he's always felt it was his calling; he enjoys teaching and he is good at it.
He started teaching in 2007 at a Title 1 school about 30 minutes from where we live in Spring, Texas. About 80% of his school is "economically disadvantaged" and about 93% are minority. Kenny has to work at the metal detector stations every other week. The kids are not allowed to have opaque backpacks- they must be either mesh or clear, for safety . This is a very different school than the ones he and I attended.
But it is a "magnet school"- kids must apply to get in and maintain certain academic standards. Because of its demographics, the pay is better than in other nearby districts. His starting salary was significantly higher than it would have been in, say, Utah, where we were moving from (though if you consider the healthcare options it starts to look less shiney). We thought he'd teach there for the first few years, then hopefully we'd move elsewhere- the options at the time seemed limitless.

His kids are good kids, and he genuinely cares about them. Lots of them don't care about their education and aren't given any reason to care by their family and culture, but a good number of them DO care and go on to great college careers, often with substantial scholarships. This school has resources allocated to it to help those kids who do actually have it in them to excel.
Still, when his district's average passing rate for the TAKS 9th grade math test is 68% (kenny's kids were well above that last year, but still lower than you'd hope), you can see how it would be hard to maintain job satisfaction. With that background, you can see why Teacher Appreciation matters so much.

It's very important to remember this when discussing public education: this is NOT a free market, folks. If Kenny wants/deserves a raise, he cannot simply walk in to his manager and ask for one. If he has a problem with benefits, he can't just go work at the public education system down the street. If he does a really good job, he doesn't get a promotion. His education gave him the skills to be a great educator but his other professional options are limited without going back for another degree.
Educators can't sell more of their product or up their marketing efforts if they need more "revenue". They can only plead with lawmakers who in turn have to appease taxpayers.
For the record, Kenny does not have access to any teacher union. If any union approaches him near school property, they can be prosecuted. Texas is a not a union-friendly state. Which means if we have a problem, we have no voice.

In 2009, as part of the federal stimulus package, Texas received 3.2 billion extra federal dollars for its education department. Rather than using that money to boost the Education Department, the state took nearly the exact same sum out and used that money for everything but education (including for the state "rainy day fund"). In the end, Texas educators didn't see any of that extra money.
Under current proposed budgets, up to ONE THIRD of Texas teachers might be losing their jobs. That's 100,000 teachers. 

And yet there is a billboard on 1-45 that says "Want to Teach? When can you start?" (can you think of anything less sensitive and more insulting to the thousands of teachers who planned and prepared for their career only to be laid off this year?)

We considered taking time off during this education "crisis" to get Kenny a master's degree so he'd be more eligible to teach in a different state (fun fact: in Texas state, getting a Masters would raise his salary a whopping $500 a year. That wouldn't even begin to cover student loans). As a teacher, he'd be eligible for government aid in getting another degree- but those "loan forgiveness" programs require him actually working for 5 years after graduating.
Last year, when Kenny applied at a better school closer to home, he was told he was one of 1100 applicants. For two open positions. Needless to say, as a relatively new teacher, he didn't get the job. Suddenly that Master's Degree doesn't look like such a good idea. We could be saddled with a whole lot of debt and no job options.

Add to this the fact that in the last two months, Kenny has been told all of the following by his employer:
  • His school, which currently has 850 students, is expected to grow to 1100 next year. But, since they are essentially bankrupt, they can't hire the appropriate amount of teachers, so Kenny's class size is likely to go from 25 to 40 students (there isn't even room for that many chairs in his classroom), and he's losing his prep period (teaching 6 periods a day instead of 5, without any extra compensation).
  • His $3000 stipend he was getting for teaching a "high-needs" subject is being eliminated.
  • The medical benefit premiums are going up again. Apparently the current $1200 or so a month it would currently take to insure our family (with a $2000 deductible!) isn't enough (it would be $2800/month for the "good" coverage). 
(Don't worry, we don't pay that much, we go through a private third party. Fun fact: Maternity coverage simply does not exist if you're not on a group plan. My 5-month-old baby was paid for out-of-pocket and we STILL saved money from not going through Kenny's school district).


My sister's children in Oregon attend an elementary school that has is losing 20 million from their duget this year. They've already eliminated bus routes so the school now only has 3 buses for roughly 500 students. They've shortened the school year 5 days and have early-outs every Wednesday to save on costs. Many schools throughout the country are cutting extra-curricular activities (also known as "those things you can't be standardized-tested on and therefore don't get funded").

And then, the most recent bit of news:
There is currently legislation in the works in the Capitol that would cut teacher pay and rights even further, eliminating "minimum pay" for teachers and allowing districts more flexibility in deciding on layoffs and pay schedules. I understand why the legislation is being considered- making sacrifices to keep teachers from being laid off altogether. The education budget is such that they have the option of either laying off hundreds of thousands of teachers, or laying off a few less teachers while reducing pay and rights to the remainder. Both options stink.
Kenny's district hinted that if the bill goes through, teachers in his district might no longer be paid for teacher inservice days- which accounts for about 15% of my husband's salary.

When all is said and done, Kenny might be making about 13k less next year for teaching than he did when he started 3 years ago.

On a lighter note, a joke:
What's the difference between a teacher and a large pepperoni pizza?
Answer: 
The pizza can feed a family of 4.

Kenny has officially let his school know he won't be returning next year. He loves teaching but not enough to be a martyr to it, especially not with two young kids to support. We are very lucky that leaving public education is a choice that works well for us- he hasn't been laid off, and I happen to have some great job opportunities right now. He will be a stay-at-home dad and hopefully feel truly appreciated, and I'll work from home fulltime.
I will be very disappointed, though, if he never returns to teaching. The world is losing yet one more young, passionate teacher. But first, our state and our nation need to get some priorities straight. I won't pretend to know what the solution is, but something has got to change.
Next time you feel the strain of taxes is too high or that teachers are asking for too much, please think of teachers as individuals, with goals and families. Let your legislators know that you want education to be a priority.

Friday, May 06, 2011

Month in review

Sorry for no posts lately. I keep hoping I'll have happy job news to announce so I can let you all in on what our plans are, but we're still in limbo- turns out the interview process is long (but still looking hopeful).

In the meantime, in the last month:
Grandma and grandpa came to visit:

We went to the wildlife park again:

C and D worked on their reading skills:

I worked while Camille napped (all done with contracting, yay!):

Dyed easter eggs:

C learned to sit up:

Ate real food for the first time:

Made a lot of funny faces:

Got really into watching TaleSpin with her brother:

Got all dressed up for easter:


Daniel turned 3 (kenny made this cake for his actual birthday):

(and this cake, for his party):

Loves his soccer ball he got as a present:

Made a very full house for his iron man party (7 toddlers=parents=yikes)

Got really dirty having fun camping:


The rest of our April pics are in our smugmug album:

Saturday, April 02, 2011

My amazing husband

Remember this?

Kenny turned it into this:

This last month has been VERY busy work-wise for me and Kenny has been amazing about watching the kids. I know it's hard after coming home from a hard day of work, where he is very under-appreciated, to immediately take kids off my hands so I can work, but he does it every day without complaint. 
He has done 95% of the dishes and 90% of the cooking in the 5 years we've been married (and the majority of the cleaning). He takes out the garbage twice a week without being asked, makes sure the car always has gas (he refills it 9 times out of 10), makes fabulous cookies and pizzas, and plays with the kids like he's a kid himself. He can build, he can repair, and he just installed two new ceiling fans, of his own initiative. He answers things honestly and with thought ("Does this dress make me look fat?" ... "turn around.... hmm, I bet you could find something more flattering"- I actually LOVE that kind of honesty and know how risky it is when your wife is moody and sometimes overly sensitive). He doesn't take offense at pretty much anything. He is completely "without guile" (what an apt description). And he really rocks a beard. 

(You may be wondering "if he does all that, what do YOU do, Jen", I wouldn't blame you. I change diapers, take care of kids between 10 pm and 7 am, clean bathrooms, vacuum stairs, and work 10-20 hours a week while dangling children on my knee. But even I concede I don't feel like I do nearly as much as he does- he's hard to keep up with.)

Hooray for Kenny!